uthor of ‘Islamic’ sex guide blames weak leadership and fear of fierce women
The author of the Obedient Wives Club’s (OWC) contentious sex guide has claimed to have experienced “spiritual sex” with her late husband and penned the book to share the “rewards” of her knowledge with members.
Madam Hatijah Aam, 57, the second wife of the banned Al-Arqam founder, the late Ashaari Muhammad, said she wrote the pocket-size, 128-page book to counter the “westernisation of sex”, which aims to “destroy the purity of the act”.
The Malay-language guide, Seks Islam: Perangi Yahudi Untuk Kembalikan Seks Islam Kepada Dunia (Islamic Sex: Fighting Against Jews To Return Islamic Sex To The World), priced at RM50 (S$20), was made available only to OWC’s 3,000 members and married couples when it was published in August.
The last remaining copies were handed out to reporters on Friday.
The book has been roundly criticised by human rights groups as an insult to the modern woman, news portal Malaysiakini.com reported.
Mr Ashaari, who was married five times and fathered 37 children, used to head the Islamic sect that was banned in 1994 as heretical because it projected him as the absolver of sinners and empowered by Allah with supernatural powers.
There are no explicit pictures in the book, but the narratives are filled with graphic descriptions, bordering on pornography, of the sexual acts between Madam Hatijah and her late husband.
One chapter chronicles the extreme pleasure when she was “s***** and kissed” by her late husband.
Another chapter talks about her late husband’s deft hands, which gave her “unbounded pleasure”.
She added that her book was a wedding present to her daughter and son-in-law, whom she referred to as “Liyana and Humam”.
The book also included a few interesting questions and answers involving internationally renowned leaders and actors who had been embroiled in sex scandals.
Why did President (Bill) Clinton cheat on his wife, Hillary?
Prophet Muhammad led his 11 wives for the sake of their love. The problem is Mr Clinton is not a smart leader at all, that is with just two persons. What more with 11!
A Western actress great at sex (Jennifer Aniston) was divorced by her husband, Brad Pitt, who then made Angelina Jolie his girlfriend. Why?
Brad Pitt is just like all other men in the world – they fear fierce and demanding women. Therefore, even if great at sex, they are fierce. If that woman was loyal and well-mannered, there would have been no divorce.
Did Allah teach us to be faithful only in matters related to sex?
The “loyalty package” involves good deeds, manners, morale, striving and sacrificing for the love of Allah and the Prophet.
She ends the book on a modest note by saying that she scored well in loyalty to her husband, “but there were times of failure too” and her “vulnerable condition” was caused by “sihir” (magic). Otherwise, a 100 per cent loyal wife will not deny her husband’s wishes.
“At that point, I asked (husband) Abuya to leave me because I couldn’t serve him any more. I said, ‘Don’t you have many wives?’”
